Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Dear Miles: 4 years

Dear Miles,

You are four years old today. You are definitely a fully formed person. You have opinions and personality. You have got sarcasm down and you surprise me with the quality of your jokes.

A brother came into your life eight days ago, Will. You are the sweetest with him. You want to kiss him on his forehead each night before bed and you always want to hold him. You told me yesterday that you love him when he breastfeeds and is asleep and when he is awake but not crying. You also said you didn't love him when he was crying. I don't blame you really. Even though it's only been eight days, I'm super impressed with how you're adapting to the changes that a new baby sibling brings to our lives.

We're excited for you to start pre-kindergarten this August. Daddy brings you to story time every Tuesday at the library. I got to go yesterday for the first time and it was fascinating to watch my little guy, usually so energetic and mobile, sit still for a half hour listening to someone else read stories. You were inquisitive and participatory and it was a joy to watch you in that environment. I have no doubt you'll do well in school. Everyone knew your name at story time. You make friends so easily. People are endeared to you because of your sweet and outgoing nature.

You are still our little scientist, pushing limits, finding out where the boundaries are. You ask great questions about the world. Yesterday's question was whether grass grows into trees. You are fascinated by the human body and we're feeding that fascination with books and puzzles about organs and bones. After your brother was born I showed you the placenta and you said "That's a cool placenta!"

I'm so happy you made me a mother. I'm so happy you're my kid. I love the way you explore the world. I love the pure joy you have when you're learning new things. I love you. I do.

Happy Fourth Birthday!

Love, Mama.



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